Prompt details

Tested on

Claude Opus 5.5

Length

494 words · 5 fill-ins

Example input

[About you]: 33, veterinary technician at a 24-hour emergency animal hospital, four 10-hour shifts, some overnights. Rock climbing at the gym 3 times a week and outdoors about once a month; solid at bouldering, still scared of lead climbing. I bake sourdough; my starter is named Doug and he's 4 years old. Three-legged cat named Biscuit I adopted from work. I read a lot of mystery novels and always guess the killer wrong. Bad at karaoke, go anyway. Grew up in a small town, moved to the city 6 years ago. Don't drink much; coffee dates over bars. Friends say I'm calm in a crisis and terrible at replying to texts.

[What you are looking for]: Something serious, long-term. Kids maybe someday, I'm open. Someone kind who has their own thing they love; doesn't have to be climbing. Men, 30 to 40.

[The app and prompts you picked]: Hinge. Prompts I picked: "A shower thought I recently had", "I'm convinced that" and "Together, we could". I might also try Bumble.

[Your photos]: 1. Selfie in my car with sunglasses on. 2. Me at the top of a boulder problem, from behind, face not visible. 3. Holding Biscuit on my couch, smiling. 4. Group photo from a wedding, six women in similar dresses. 5. A sourdough loaf, I'm not in it. 6. Me laughing at a friend's birthday, close-up, good light. 7. In scrubs at work holding a golden retriever puppy (a patient; the owner said OK).

[How you text]: lol no i'm on nights till thursday, brunch sunday?? doug survived the heat wave. barely. he's dramatic ok i'm doing the scary route today. if i die tell biscuit she was my favorite i guessed the butler. it was not the butler. it is never the butler

Example output

1. What comes across

A calm, warm person who does serious work and doesn't take herself seriously: she handles emergencies overnight, then names her bread starter and loses every mystery-novel bet with herself. She's clearly looking for something real, and she'd rather talk over coffee than shout over a bar.

The 3 details it's built on:

1. Doug, the 4-year-old sourdough starter who is dramatic

2. Biscuit, the three-legged cat who came home with you from the animal ER

3. "it is never the butler": you love mysteries and always guess wrong

*Assumption: everything is written in lowercase to match your texts. Capitalise it if that feels too casual on a profile.*

2. Prompt answers

A shower thought I recently had

Playful: doug, my sourdough starter, is 4. old enough for a birthday party?? he survived a heat wave, he's earned one *(108)*

→ Invites: "what does a starter's birthday party look like" or their own bread questions.

Sincere: sometimes i think about how biscuit came into work and went home with me. three legs, [add detail: how she picked you] *(118)*

→ Invites: "ok i need the full biscuit story."

I'm convinced that

Playful: it is never the butler. i read a lot of mysteries and still guess the killer wrong every time. what are you reading?? *(117)*

→ Invites: a book recommendation, or a guess at who the killer is.

Sincere: coffee is the best first date. i don't drink much and i'd rather hear about the thing you love than shout over a bar *(116)*

→ Invites: their coffee order, their favourite spot, or the thing they love.

Together, we could

Playful: do karaoke badly. i already do it badly and go anyway, so the bar is on the floor. pick the song *(96)*

→ Invites: an easy reply with a song choice.

Sincere: build something real. i want long-term, kids maybe someday, and someone kind with their own thing they love. what's yours *(123)*

→ Invites: the right people to tell you about their thing. The wrong ones will scroll past.

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Claude Opus 5.5

This prompt writes your dating profile in your own voice. Paste facts about you, what you want, your app prompts, your photos and a few texts; you get prompt answers, bios, a photo order and ten openers.

What you get

Two answers for each app prompt you picked, one playful and one sincere
Three short bios for apps with a bio field
Your photos ranked, with which to drop and what is missing
Ten openers in your voice, each tied to a common profile detail

How to use it

1
Write the specifics
List small, true details, such as what you named your plant or the hobby you are bad at, and paste a few real texts so it learns your voice.
2
Pick one answer per prompt
Choose the version you would say out loud, and fill any [add detail] with the real thing.
3
Check the counter and photos
Paste each answer into the app, trim it to fit, and reorder your photos as ranked.

Better results

Paste messages you have really sent, not ones written for the prompt. The voice comes from how you already text.
After a week, paste the answers that got the fewest replies and ask for two new versions with a clearer hook.
For a profile you like, paste their prompt answers without their name and ask for three openers in your voice.

Questions

What are the best prompts for Hinge?

The best Hinge prompts are the ones you can answer with a specific detail that invites a reply, such as "I'm convinced that" or "Together, we could". Generic answers get skipped. This prompt writes two versions for each prompt you pick and suggests prompts if you have fewer than three.

Can ChatGPT write a dating profile?

Yes. ChatGPT, Claude or Gemini can write a dating profile, prompt answers and openers, but only from real details about you. Paste specifics and a few of your texts, and read every line as if a match will ask about it on the first date.

Is it okay to use AI for your dating profile?

Yes, if every fact is true and it sounds like you. Use AI to choose and phrase your real details, not to invent a personality. Matches notice quickly when the profile and the person in the chat do not match.

What is a good first message on a dating app?

A good first message picks something specific from their profile and asks an easy question, such as which bakery they rate or what their dog is called. A plain "hey" is easy to ignore. This prompt writes ten openers in your voice, tied to common profile details.

Updated 8 Nov 2026